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Back in Puerto Rico

Hello Puerto Rico, heat, and jetlag. It’s always a couple of days of readjustment time when you come back here. Especially since it was getting colder in Sweden, the heat right hooks you in the face! Oh, and back on with the face masks. But other than that, it’s great to be back and have summer again 🙂

Some pics from Sweden. Here having some birthday brunch at Grand Hotel in Stockholm.

After __ glasses of Champagne it felt like a great idea to take some bathroom selfies with Karina. Only person behaving in these pics is Uma Thurman on my t-shirt hahahaaa…

Karina bought a horse and I went to the stable to see if I still had my horse skills. I think I do… Only managed to get stepped on, and now I have a blue toe. But hey, no one died…

You don’t take a pic of it, it didn’t happen. So here’s my proof that I went to the gym more times than a bar or a club. Usually it’s the opposite!

When you try to claim you’re a blond, you better be a little bit more convincing than me! But now I’m back being a blond 🙂

Talked about sex and hopefully get to go on TV and talk more about it. I believe the youth need proper education about sex, and not just have porn as their education.

And of course there was the smut.

That lasted until the cat stepped in and said there was one pussy too many in the picture now…

And these are the leftovers. Me, Andrew, big ass seagull, cute dog at the cafe, coffee and nature.

Hope you all are doing great. Last quarter of this year. Time to get all your sh*t together and finish strong 🙂 Or at least that’s my plan. You have one?

Kisses, Puma

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My profession

Today I talked to a Swedish production company about participating in a TV show where they interview different people. A show about interesting people, so I guess I am interesting, or at least my choice of profession seems to be. 

One thing that I frequently get asked (also today on the phone) is “why choose to do porn”? One of the most frequent misunderstandings is that it’s something someone just ended up in. Or that I had no other options. I have come across a lot of people who have a hard time processing that porn can be something you actually choose to do. Freely without anyone forcing you. Even if you have other options. I can truly say I have no friends or know of anyone who didn’t choose porn for themselves. 

Let me ask you. Are you happy with your job? I’ve recently come across only one other person (outside porn) who said she had her dream job. She was working for the captain on a large ship that transports oil around the world.. She will be captain one day. Very cool. Most people you talk to are somewhat unsatisfied with their job. It might be stressful, not enough salary, co-workers suck (not literally) etc. I can say that I have always been happy to go to work! Yes, I’ve been tired or I complained about my script being too long (anyone really care about the dialogue?), but I’ve never been bored, that’s for sure hahhahaaaaa… 

My only regret is that I didn’t start earlier. I started when I was 27. I’ve been a late bloomer in most things in life. I chose porn out of free will and never regretted it. Yes, it was a tough one to tell my family. There were no standing ovations for my choice of career. Luckily they are great, and understanding this is what makes me happy. 

So why porn? Except from the obvious of loving sex, I love being in front of the camera, and getting paid well! I have always been able to choose when I want to work and when I want to take time off. I’ve been lucky to work around the world, with great companies and people. I’ve also had fun attending award shows, even though I never managed to win LOL… Danced and performed around the world, and met many great fans! I have made a lot of friends, and got to eat a lot of free pizza on set hahahaaa… 

Things are even better now. I can make all that dough from home now. I will make another post on how porn has changed shortly 🙂 

Other than that I can report that our street still has no power. Some blocks have gotten their power back, but not us. Hardest part is sleeping with no AC. My favorite coffee shop Gusto’s around the corner is running on a generator so get my coffee though! Mucho importante!

My reading light at night is a flashlight taped to the bed. You get creative! 

Send some electricity my way por favor 🙂

Kisses, Puma

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If you’re interested…

…in hearing me talk about sex, here’s a fresh podcast I did with Nirvana Strength Gym. Don’t be fooled; not much gym talk going on, more about sex, relationships, and the porn industry. You find it on Spotify, but I’ll spare you the search and here’s the link – https://open.spotify.com/episode/0UVHQf14YwTXpyxziuV54t?si=sfR61i1QQsOnqj7obdKlbw

Not just podcasting with the gym, but been going and lifting, stretching, mobilizing & sweating!

Tried some new coffee shops and restaurants this week too. I get comfortable and go to the same places because I like to know I’ll love what I get. I’ve occasionally got to take a chance though, and I found new places that’ve been great! I know, no pics of the food, but I think people’s food pics are boring, so instead you get me! I’m pretty edible too 😉

One of the greatest finds this past weekend (or worst health wise) was that a store carried Swedish Cheesedoodlez! Got too f*cking excited to just pass up on them, and pretty much downed the bag in one sitting. Disgusting breath, cheezy fingers, and half the doodlez mashed up in your gums like you never brushed your teeth. Was it worth it – hell yes!

Went to read at the beach this weekend, and it was relaxing being overcast so I could get a break from sweating!

Got some content done too! Pervs always in the need 🙂

Oh, and I got these awesome pineapple/I Love Bali panties from Linda when she was here so we could match! Love them & Bali 🙂

My birthday is on Friday so taking off to an island outside of Bali for the weekend. So excited and hope I get to snorkel with manta-rays! That would be amazing to see one!

Laters people and have an amazeballs week!

Puma

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Let’s talk about sex!

I received this comment below and I thought it’s a topic many of us can relate to or maybe you know someone who can benefit from the info below 🙂

The comment:

Hello Puma,

Do you have any advice to give to someone (me) who’s been in a 9 year long relationship and sex has become pretty rare and boring? I am pretty open to try new things and we have even gone to a swingers party once, but it wasn’t for us. One day I hope to meet you in person because you seem to be such a fun person to be around!

My reply:

Invite Puma Swede in to your bedroom hahahaaaa… Jokes aside, I used to suggest role play, making your own sex tape, and/or phone sex/texting during the day to make suggestions on what’s going down later. 

BUT, then I read ‘Mating in Captivity’ by Esther Perel. Wow, this book is a must read if you are in a relationship and sex starts to be feel routine or mundane! 

This is what it says about the book on Amazon: 

“One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.

Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.”

Esther talks about how we get so familiar with each other that we basically become one person. The basic rule is to keep some mystery, and that we should be two different people. There’s no need to share everything or know each others’ business in detail. 

The book brings in real couple’s problems/issues and Esther analyzes their situation. Most couples in the book are in love, that is not the issue. They just need to reheat the passion in it. She is brilliant, and I think her book is an excellent read even if you’re not in a relationship. Good info to store away for the future 🙂 

One final topic that I thought was very good! It talks about why you would tell someone you cheated. We say it’s because we want to be honest, but really it is because we feel the need to lessen our burden by telling the truth. By admitting cheating we make ourselves feel better, but our partner is most likely heartbroken! They did nothing wrong, but now you’re transferring your burden to them.  It definitely makes a compelling argument to consider whether to withhold cheating if it’s only going to be to your benefit.

Link to her book on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641

She also has a podcast which is how I discovered her – https://www.estherperel.com/podcast

I still think you guys can make your personal sex tape. I promise you will at least get a good laugh from it. Try the usual porn storylines – secretary/employee, teacher/student, doctor/patient… I think you get it 🙂 

There are obviously many more roads to try/explore. Even though I consider myself try-sexual, I believe I have more fun things to delve into. Swinging is fun, and I would like to explore tantric practices more for example. 

I think this topic is very broad and common so If you have any suggestions/advice/tips please share with the rest of us! More sex to the people! 

Kisses, Puma

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Wow, either I’m…

…this damn hot/gorgeous/sexy/stunning… or insert your own description here _______________ ….or the photographer is a magician hahahaaa 😉 Last week I shot with @fredrikhedlund_com and we played around with some lights, oil, and black paint. It got messy, but totally worth it!

This weekend I got together with friends and had a BBQ. Perfect weather, great friends, good food, and some Puerto Rican rum 🙂

One interesting topic that came up during the night was what would you do if someone gave you 10 million dollars? I think it’s fascinating that people have trouble coming up with an answer, myself included. I don’t feel that there’s anything that I badly want that I couldn’t have already. I value my health and feel that I can achieve or do anything I want if I’m healthy!

Some of the answers from the discussion with my friends were things like going back to school, which the person could do already if they wanted to. Pay off your siblings’ student loans, quit your day job, invest the $, and I think my final answer was to buy a boat, learn to maneuver it, and sail around wherever I wanted to. After some though, I could actually do that now… but the boat would be a bit smaller though hahahaaaa…

I live a pretty simple life without many possessions. I have gotten rid of everything I owned twice (except some sentimental things and necessary clothing) and travelled around the world. Last time, about 1.5 years ago, I didn’t get any further than Puerto Rico on my world travel, and settled for now. I have collected some things, but hopefully I will never hoard items/clutter ever again. Easier to live and leave that way 🙂

What would you do with 10 million dollars that you couldn’t do already?

I have a shoot tomorrow with a new photographer, and we’re heading out at 7am to shoot outdoors! Time to shit, shower, shave and go to bed!

Kisses, Puma

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Last night the…

…the show/documentary based on my book “My Life As a Pornstar” aired. I hope all of you Swede’s saw it 🙂 I’ve received a few emails from people who said they watched it and liked it. Mostly women write, and almost every time I’ve been in TV or done an interview they all are positively surprised. It’s like people think that because you are in porn, you can only moan and barely form sentences hahahaaa… There are a lot of people in the sex industry with various forms of education and degrees, but who have chosen this line of work because they enjoy it. That’s hard for some people to believe, and something I bring up in the show – I have chosen to be in porn out of free will! There was no drug abuse, broken childhood, or a pimp that forced it me. I just love to be naked and to know people enjoy my work!

Because my experiences on set, dancing at clubs, being at conventions, etc have always been great, and I’ve always had a great time, I also point out that I have never recommended anyone to get into porn. Why? There are people who’ve gotten into the business and been short sighted about it, or perhaps not thought it through properly and later regret it. Maybe their family or friends turned their backs on them and they have no one to turn to after. It’s hard to come back to a regular job. I always point out that your scenes will always be online and people will find out. There are people out there that do not accept porn or the people who do it. My advice has always been to think long and hard (long and hard, really…) about your decision, and if you’re going to do it, plan long term, have a business plan, and save your money! Or at least a little 🙂

Today there is also this article in Aftonbladet – https://www.aftonbladet.se/nojesbladet/a/P9E47z/puma-swede-om-karriarbytet-efter-porren-bara-nagra-hogskolepoang-bor

It talks about how I want to educate today’s kids about sex. I didn’t have access to Internet as a kid, and I tried to look up stuff like ‘hard on’ in my mom’s dictionary without any results hahahaaa… Today the kids watch porn and I think they need to be informed on the differences between reality and porn. They know the holes and words, but they need to know a no is a no, how to set boundaries, and not agree to anything you’re not comfortable with! I feel I’m a great person to talk about all of this and I plan to do it! Sex is and should be fun at all times!

If you missed the show, you can see it here – https://www.dplay.se/program/puma-swede-mitt-liv-som-porrstjarna

This is the last day of recording the show in Sweden. I believe I’m so famous I need a train station named after me, and apparently I have it!

https://videopress.com/v/bYEn0J21

Kisses, Puma

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